Is My Partner Cheating On Me?

Your partner has been a bit distracted for a while now. You are not entirely certain. And you don’t want to come across as being suspicious. So you continue to wonder- Is my partner cheating on me?

The major reason for a cheating partner be it a man or a woman is primarily their inability to be able to control their sexual attraction towards the other gender; or it could just be their personality. Communication barriers and partners not having enough sex with their other half are also contributing factors to extramarital affairs.
At times, you begin to wonder “Is my partner cheating behind my back”; Mind you, when your partner is unfaithful be it your man or your woman, secrecy skyrockets, abnormal behavior and attitude increases, plus there is an unexplained distance between the both of you.

There is almost nothing that can upend a relationship more quickly than infidelity. People often list off common habits and personality changes as surefire signs that a partner is cheating, but the truth is that there is no way to ever know for sure that someone is being unfaithful without cold, hard proof. “There are no definitive, across-the-board, signs of cheating (unless you catch your partner red-handed, or they own up to what’s going on),”. You wouldn’t be the first person, for example, to say you had “no idea” your partner was cheating until it became glaringly obvious. “And some cheaters are extremely good at covering their tracks!”

It would also be a mistake to suggest that any of these signs are absolute proof of cheating. “Sometimes people change their behavior or habits out of nowhere and don’t offer much explanation for their reasons for these changes, and although this could seem suspicious, it might not necessarily have anything to do with infidelity,”

Generally speaking, though, a partner who is having an affair is often going to do things that are different than they usually would; “They could be changing behaviors (adding a gym routine, working late more often, eating out more often, being on the phone more or being secretive about phone use). There could be changes in your emotional connection (feeling less connected, less respected, less included in day-to-day activities, less supported or understood, less sex than normal). Or conversely, you feel they are suddenly far more attentive than normal, having way more sex than normal, overly helpful and eager where they weren’t before,”

“The signs might be financial — using cash more often, unexplained charges, overdrafts, reluctance to make bigger joint purchases like an appliance, car, mortgage or lease. There might be relationships they don’t invite you to be a part of — never including you with work colleagues, for example.”

The fact is that it’s hard to ever say for sure if someone is cheating or not without proof, but if you’re looking for more signals that something might be up, there are things to look for. Whether you’ve been cheated on before and you’re always scanning for hints of betrayal, or you’ve never been with a cheater and don’t know what to expect, there are certain things which you really need to look out for which will come in especially as common signs of suspicious behavior that your partner is cheating on you and having an affair.

One thought on “Is My Partner Cheating On Me?

  1. Can i please get some help with my partner suspected of cheating? Can you help to access her messenger and text messages on her iPhone device. Can i get to track and monitor her live location as well.

    Regards.

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